Careless

I wonder how could someone seems so careless in purposed to his girlfriend.

Seems like they just walked their girlfriend straight to certain romantic place, then suddenly shows her an engaged ring and he was like, "I love you, will you marry me?" or that kinda sentence. Then the girl was incredibly touch and she started to cry while replying, "Yes, I do!"

In some chase, the boy even rented a party planner, so when the couple arrives at certain romantic place, it was already decorated by shabby or flowery thingy and the party planner member set someone to capture the moment. In the end, they got engaged.

I don't mean to discriminate some action because people have their own way to do a things. I just think that using party planner to join my private moment isn't just my thing.

Me, obviously, started to think about getting married. At first, I do think I'm gonna do the first thing I stated in this post. Just that simple. When my boyfriend finally brought this in our conversation, it turned out that asking your girlfriend to marry you wasn't just as simple as give her a ring. There's sooooooooo many things to settle, what we were uncertain about. About belief, finance, family, target, problem-solving, capital, daily needs, and so many things that I'm pretty sure that hasn't enough. Which means the discussion doesn't finish in one meeting but taking several months.

I'm glad my boyfriend wasn't a romantic-type boy. I wonder if he was, he set a romantic dinner and rent a party planner to decorate our table. Then by the time he shows me a ring and asked will I marry him, I'm going to look at him, uncertain, and start to interrogate him, "have your mom heard about this? have you found a place to stay for us after getting married? have you calculate the cost of our ceremony later? what will your sibling thought about this? ect, ect," and what if it takes more than to ours until I finally said yes and the person who capture our moment have already exhausted as if he'd better die. Don't forget that it'll make all the romantic decoration going waste too.